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New Life
2012
unknownj
Going well, I suppose. Things progressing nicely. Went out last night, got drunk in my favourite way, i.e. drinking a good few brandies, and feeling drunk but not ill. It takes so much Malibu to get me drunk that I always feel a bit rough after drinking much of it. Brandy I can take much more easily. Attending were myself, James, Vicky, Sarah, Laura. Also there, but not with us, were Mice, Alex, Harry and Joyce. A good time was had by all (well, all those I was with), although when Vicky sat on my lap and started dry-humping me, I think Alex and Harry got a bit pissed off. Oops. Mice thinks James's new hair looks cute, aww, so sweet. Speaking of hair, I've had good responses about my new hairstyle from Vicky, Annie, Lulu, Mice and Joyce. The opinions of these people mean a lot to me, so... Here's a preview:

I like it, anyway...

Anyhow, after going out, we came back (shock!) and Mice and I proceeded to get wasted on whisky and brandy beans. Everybody else vanished somewhere, and she and I spent the rest of the evening just chatting in my room. Well, aside from the tickling, but let's not go there... Covered lots of ground, and it was just generally really nice to talk to her. I won't get into this here though - too complex by far...

Anyhow, she left my room at 6am, and I went to sleep. Yay for sleep. Ooh, just did a test on TheSpark, yet again. Third time I've done it, but I want to qualify New James as being something. And the results are in, and it's as much as I expected. A full breakdown will follow some other time...

So anyhow, today, let's have a think... Lectures... Mmm... And guitar playing...

Yay for my guitar... I've done tons of other stuff today, but I started writing this journal post 4 hours ago, and I've forgotten most of what I was going to say. Alex asked me to come back to her, I said no, she cried for a while. That was less than great. I have to say, the part of me that knows how to deal with these situations just because I'm a bloke says "If you're that important that she'd cry, then run away". Needy and Clingy are not words that excite me.... Alex and Harry are convinced that I only go for blonde skinny beautiful girls, due to my involvement in one way or another with Mice, Vicky and Jenny (although she has really dark brown hair, it just had lots of highlights in when she visited giving the impression of blonde). Yeesh...

Watched the Shawshank Redemption earlier on with James, Claire, Harry and Alex. Very good film indeed.... I'm too tired to review it now... Also spoke to James Bell, which was nice - invited him to come stay sometime soon, which will be good fun. Spoke to Mice briefly earlier, and then Vicky and Lulu came home, followed shortly by a very drunk Joyce. This has to be the first time anybody has seen her truly out of it, which was amusing. She's now gone out to see Steve, so that may end in a funny story...

Just gone to bed. Spoke to Vicky quite a bit just now, along with fighting her (trying to get her to brush her hair with her toothbrush and toothpaste), nailing her (and not with nails and a hammer) against the door to the dining room (clothes on and everything, mind, just to see how noisy it'd be if we actually did ;o), and going into the toilet with her (she needed loo roll). All good fun. Then she went to bed, so I called her and we spoke for a few minutes, mainly about the subject of James and whether he's a virgin. With the obvious exception of him, I'm the only person in the flat who knows if he is or not. She's desperate to know, which makes things fun.

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Definitely a keeper, IMHO, you look quite smashing. :-)

More preaching....

"I have to say, the part of me that knows how to deal with these situations just because I'm a bloke says "If you're that important that she'd cry, then run away". Needy and Clingy are not words that excite me.."

Can I just say that for an intelligent young man, you really can talk a load of bollocks! What you have just said is that you never want a proper relationship where both people are important to each other. In these relationships it is not unusual for one or both people to cry when it breaks up. Even in very brief relationships it is possible for someone to be very hurt when it ends. Your reaction does smack of being a 'bit of a lad' or what we old fogeys would call a Male Chauvinist Pig.
Don't forget that Alex invested a lot into your brief relationship. You were (at least casually) involved with one of her friends, and she was the one who summoned up the courage to tell you that she wanted to start a proper relationship. So it's not surprising that she is feeling hurt. She might also be feeling used. People do get upset when things end, remember????
Anyway I'll stop now so that you can swear about me, etc.

Re: More preaching....

Agreed. However, it's still something of a turn-off when somebody gets more emotional than you think the situation warrants. The important point to note there is that it's a lot of responsibility, having it in you to make somebody cry, and some of us right now aren't looking for any responsibility. I have no doubt that I'll go looking for a proper relationship soon enough, but right now I genuinely just want to have a bit of harmless fun, with as little responsibility as possible.

Re: More preaching....

u git. If you didn't say this to her then how is she meant to know. And you can't chose how emotionally attatched you get to someone. GRrrrrrrrrrr james....honestly.; And don't you dare backlash me.

Re: More preaching....

Ha! Your words are pointless, I've already told her this, she still cried, and I just got pissed off. I mean come on, get over it girl... Basically... So nerr :oP

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